We expect things. It’s in our nature, and part of the journey of learning. When things happen and we think we see why we expect them to follow that pattern. When reality challenges our expectations it often leaves us scrambling to figure out what happened.

Managing expectations is an underrated skill. Putting our faith in the right things helps us avoid having the surprises life throws at us turn into pitfalls. If you put your faith in solid things gradually you can make things that once seemed unlikely happen. However we must also steer away from expecting disaster, lest disaster manifest. Realistic and positive expectations are the key. Expect the best, but be prepared for occasional disappointment.